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Introduce me to a man that says the female orgasm does not exist and I will show you a man who does not have the skill to bring it out in their partner. This article will hopefully explain that the female orgasm does, in fact, exist and is obtainable. It will also serve to explain the different types of orgasm that a woman can have. Being able to understand how the female body works and the orgasm that it can deliver can lead you down the correct path making it happen for you. I hope that you will read all of this and stop being greedy about your own pleasure. As men we are all well aware about how easy it is for us to achieve climax. We also know that usually once we ejaculate that it is very rare for us to feel like going a second round. Women are blessed with the ability to give us multiple orgasms on varying degrees.

We as men aren’t exactly the sharpest tool in the box because we are constantly asking our partner if they had an orgasm and of course we need to dig deeper and ask how many. You would be surprised at how many women still are unsure if they have ever had an orgasm. My simple answer here is that if you have to ask then chances are you have not achieved orgasm.

The research that was conducted in order to bring this article to you includes accounts of sensations and feelings from different women. Your experience may be slightly different from theirs and that’s ok. You are your own person and as such you will orgasm differently than the woman next to you and some orgasms I mention may not be possible with you. It’s all just a matter of nature meets stimulation. If you want these orgasms to happen to you then it is important to talk to your lover. Explain to them what they are doing right and what they’re doing wrong and always be honest. We are big boys and we can handle it and I promise our ego may take a bruising from the bump but we could use some humble pie every now and then.

The Clitoris and the Orgasm

This is probably the most common of female orgasms. The actual clitoris can be a very sensitive orgasm so take it guys. When the clitoris is stimulated blood rushes to the area creating this sensitivity. Almost like the male penis the clitoris does in fact, become “erect” and the area begins to get warm. This sensation can travel from the pelvic area down to her legs and feet and up to her head. This stimulation will even cause the nipples to harden and become sensitive to stimulation and, oddly enough, can begin to lactate. The feeling from here can grow in intensity by causing the skin to become sensitive to the touch and warm to the point of perspiration.

You may find your lover getting light headed as the blood rushes upward. The blood rush can cause a woman to blush as well. If you are stimulating the clitoris correctly your lover could become dizzy and seem to be outside of their normal mind like they’re in their own little world. It’s not uncommon to hear guttural moans or screaming. The muscles are contracting in what feels like “waves” all over the vaginal area (as well as other parts of the body). In most case the clitoral orgasm will last only as long as it is being stimulated whereas other females will have orgasmic spasms or shudders after you’ve stopped manipulating the area.

Orgasm in the Vagina

Unlike the clitoral orgasm the vaginal orgasm is much more elusive. Many women find it nearly impossible to achieve orgasm via stimulation of the vagina. This is unfortunate because the orgasm is far more intense than that of the clitoral orgasm. When you are able to get a woman to the point of vaginal orgasm you will often get the “more” response and she’ll find it very difficult to stay still. She will begin to gyrate and buck on you and you’ll wind up confused and a little lost. This is the “tell” so to speak because it’s hard to fake shuddering and the ensuing spasms. This is typically followed by “Oh, God” and a variety of curse words. The orgasm feels like an explosion of the senses and as a man inside your lover you’ll be able to feel their muscles contracting as the fluids are released and subsequently flowing over you. The clitoris, after orgasm, is usually way too sensitive to stimulate further but this does not readily apply to the vaginal orgasm unless your partner has been overly exhausted by this orgasm to possibly handle another one. One you feel this orgasm occurring this is when you want to jump into overload and really move.

The Illusive G-Spot

I’m here to tell you guys out there that think it does not exist that, in fact, it does! It just is very, very hard to find because every woman has one but they’re not always in the same area. Many adult toy companies are producing toys to help us poor souls to find the g-spot. In fact this “mythical location” has been well documented since the 4^th century. In many women the location is hidden directly behind the clitoris and is inside the vaginal cavity. The actual area is small in size and has a “ribbed” texture to it. If you wish to find then just picture a clock in your head where the noon spot is toward her navel. The g-spot would be located, in many women, between eleven and one just a few inches within the vaginal area. As the woman’s sensation increases so will the size of this area and the “ribs” will become more noticeable.

A clitoral orgasm is relatively easy to achieve but a g-spot orgasm will most likely require more pressure. This makes it difficult since the g-spot is located inside your lover and on top of the area you’re sliding in. This creates an awkward position for you to try and add pressure with your penis. The orgasm from the g-spot is often described a need to pee. Of course many people will stop stimulating the area in fear of an accident occurring. You will need time and patience to correctly identify the area of your lover’s g-spot but the end result is worth the effort. Test your location finding skills by exploring your lover with your fingers first. They are more tactile and texture-sensing than your penis is. Once you find her pelvic bone you can pull out your fingers until you find a smooth area located on the front wall of the vagina. This is the area that you are looking for and a sliding back and forth motion can achieve an orgasm that blows the mind. Always pay attention to her sensations and facial expressions. This type of orgasm is difficult to make happen just through normal intercourse as normal positions don’t allow the penis to make contact. There are, however, several positions from behind that do allow this.

In some cases a woman can actually ejaculate from a g-spot orgasm but female ejaculation is not subject to just this type of orgasm. If it does occur with you rest assured it is not urine. She did not just lose all control and give you a golden shower.

Can a Woman Really Ejaculate?

I’m sure you’ve seen adult films where the woman “squirts” or whatever and you wonder if it’s real. The answer is yes! After about two decades doctors are finally acknowledging this action. For many years people have said that this is not possible and that it is the woman urinating. Thankfully for us that is not the truth at all. Though rare it is very natural but not all women will ever get the chance to experience this sensation.

There is a gland known as the urethral sponge. This sponge wraps around the urethra inside the women. When the woman is aroused this sponge grows to the point where it effectively shuts off the woman’s ability to urinate. The fluid that is filling up the sponge due to sexual stimulation is much like a man’s prostatic fluid and is alkaline based. Whatever the case this female ejaculation can range from a little squirt to a flood. The fluid can be completely clear but can also be somewhat cloudy or milky white. Don’t be scared if during your orgasm you ejaculate – you may scare your lover a bit when he’s not expecting it but other than that there is no harm or foul. You may look at this trait as being abnormal but it’s not and men will find it somewhat exciting and special. If you are a woman that can ejaculate you may want to tell your lover about it just in case.